The Gardener and the Carpenter

Alison Gopnik, a developmental psychologist, challenges the modern 'parenting' model, which she compares to carpentrytrying to mold a child into a specific shape. Instead, she proposes the 'gardener' model: creating a protected, diverse environment where children can thrive and develop in their own unique ways. This book is a profound, research-based exploration of what it means to be a parent and how we can best support our children's natural curiosity and growth. It is essential reading for parents who want to step back and reconsider their role in their child's development.